Something to think about.
Release the Chains
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4 31-32
Have you ever notice, the negative aspects described in this verse are all-consuming. When you engage in these actions, they consume your life. For the period of time, you are in the throes of these actions they possess you. When you are kind, compassionate and forgiving, you arrive at a place of freedom and peace. Isn’t freedom and peace better than possession and bondage? Let God help you with it, you will be happier.